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On Saturday I had my pre-dan course. This is an
assessment of your ability to meet the standard for the dan grading a few weeks
later. Like I mentioned in a previous blog, I was expecting to grade for nidan
at the end of June.
However, the verdict of the grading panel at the end of
the course was that I was ‘borderline’ and they have left it up to me to decide
whether I want to give it a try or postpone until the next dan grading session
in November. My husband (and martial arts partner) has been given the all clear
to grade for nidan in June.
Prior to the pre-dan course I would have imagined this
scenario of whether to press on regardless so that we can grade together or
grade on separate occasions would have been quite a dilemma for me. As it
happened the decision seemed very clear cut. Before I had even left the
changing rooms I had decided that I would postpone my grading until November
and concentrate on helping my husband to pass his in June.
We have graded together on every occasion since white
belt, which, if you include our kobudo gradings amounts to 17 gradings; but it
was inevitable that at some point our grading schedules would part
company. I have done well to keep up with him this long but this time I just
can’t keep up, I’m not ready for nidan grading yet and he is. My husband has
four years more experience in martial arts than me, he did jujitsu before
karate and holds a black belt in that art as well, and this experience
massively influences his ability to do karate.
I don’t want to hold him back and I don’t want to risk
failure for myself so it makes sense for us to grade separately this time. I
would hate to be one of those passed it
by the skin of her teeth or pulled it off on the day people. It’s just not
budo. I want to feel comfortable in my skin with nidan so I need to be patient and
wait.
There are advantages for both of us in grading separately.
It is doubly exhausting to both grade yourself and be a grading partner for
someone else at the same time. You have to remember their techniques (which may
be different to your own) so that you can remember what kind of attacks they
want from you at different times during the grading. It will be easier on both
of us if we only have to concentrate on one role at a time!
I can now focus on helping my husband to finish his
preparations for his grading and make sure I am fully familiar with his
techniques so that I can be a good partner for him. I know he will return the
favour for me in my preparations for November.
So I soldier on! I will have to do another pre-dan
assessment in October which I won’t particularly look forward to (they don’t
tend to be very positive experiences for me) but hopefully I will get the all clear
next time!
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